Revealed: What Women Want When It Comes to a Guy's Looks
By John Alexander
As part of my research for a guide to style, I put
together a focus group of 6 randomly chosen hot, single women between
21 and 33, to find out what styles in men they considered hot.
My goal was to find the things that they all agreed
on.
The results were surprising, because the issues the
women had the strongest opinions about were ones that most guys would
never think of.
1. YOUR TEETH. Bad teeth are "just gross"
said one blonde bombshell, to the enthusiastic agreement of the others.
So in order to not have your teeth immediately disqualify
you, keep them brushed twice a day, flossing at least once. And if
they're rotten or badly stained, see your dentist ASAP.
However, don't go crazy with the teeth whitener. "No
one wants to kiss Chiclet Mouth," added the blonde.
2. YOUR HANDS. Women notice right off the bat if your
hands are covered with dirt or grease.
"If you work with your hands," said one
woman, "that's not the first thing a woman should notice about
you."
So auto mechanics, construction workers, and other
blue collar types, listen up.
"It's not what a person does," explained
another chick. "It's just about taking care of yourself. If you
can't even wash your hands, what does that say about you?"
3. YOUR CLOTHES. When you're wearing jeans, leave
the tennis shoes at home.
"I am a believer that athletic gear is for exercise,"
said a part-time model in her mid-20s. "Some boys wear only tennis
shoes and that's just annoying. It shows immaturity."
Good shoes instead are loafers or boots.
Try to be neat without being anal. "You should
not look sloppy," said the blonde, "but don't look so put
together that you appear obsessive-compulsive."
And, be an individual, agreed the women. If you've
got that one shirt that only you love, you should still wear it, even
if it is somewhat "uncool." For example, take a Hawaiian
shirt with a flamingo on it. Some guy who absolutely loves it can
wear that shirt.
So the bottom line is that a few guys can indeed pull
off wearing the tennis shoes.
Sound confusing? It isn't once you realize that the
simple test is this: Are you wearing clothes that display your core
personality?
As one woman explained it, "You should be comfortable
with what you're wearing and like what you're wearing, because women
will pick up on that."
So in other words, just be your genuine self.
John Alexander is the developer of How
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