How Do You Know When To Call It Quits?
One of the questions I’m most frequently asked is, ‘How do you know when it’s time to quit?’
Hi. Im Mort Fertel, author of Marriage Fitness, and in terms of when to give up on your marriage, here’s what I recommend.
If divorcing is a consideration for you from a moral perspective, then before you go that route, try first for at least one year.
Did you hear that?
Try for at least one year!
And I mean REALLY try. You can always call it quits. You always have that option. But once you pull that trigger, it’s over. No more chances. Your life will never be the same. Do you have kids? If you do, their life will never be the same.
If you end your marriage, you don’t want there to be a shred of doubt in your mind. You don’t ever want to look back and wonder if things could have been different. You don’t want to ask yourself, ‘What if this-¦and what if that-¦what if I tried this-¦what if I did that?’
If you have to end your marriage, you want to know DEEP IN YOUR HEART that you did everything you could to make it work.
